Thursday, October 23, 2008

What Do Men Really Want?

It is a popular belief that men are attracted to your physical appearance more than anything else. While being attractive and taking good care of yourself is important, it is not the most important, and it is not what men really want.

What do men really want? It is your MIND. When a man falls in love with you mind, he’s falling love with whom you truly are. This takes him deeper into who you are, and only then will he find your heart and fall in love with you.

How do you get a man to fall in love with your mind? You have to show it to him by being who you really are, so he can know your mind and think it’s great. You have to share your opinions, thoughts, dreams and insights. The things you say must be genuine of who you are and how you feel. When you do this, the right man will be infatuated by your mind. You will become best friends, and he will want to spend his life with you.

In order for a man to fall in love with your mind, you must never compromise your values or alter your opinion. If he really loves you, he will love the way your mind works, even when he disagrees with you. If you make him uncomfortable that is okay. Your job is not to make him feel comfortable, it is about being true to yourself, and NOT hiding your true feelings and opinions from him. How is he supposed to get to know you if you are not being truthful with yourself?

You should talk about whatever you want to talk about. You should show him your mind; he will love you for who you are. When you show him your mind, he will love and respect you. If he doesn’t like who you are and how your mind works, then he is wrong for you, and you are wasting your time with him.

When he falls in love with your mind, you will know what it feels like for a man to love you for who you are, and there is a sense of freedom in that. No one has a mind like yours, let him love it. You deserve to have a man who loves your mind.

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