Thursday, October 23, 2008

How To Recognize a Good Man

How do you recognize a good man that is right for you, and what clues should you look for?

The first thing that you should look for is integrity and character. These are traits that are essential in a lifelong partner.

His character will tell you what he stands for, the values he lives by, and the morals that shape his behavior. This determines how he treats you and how he treats himself. His personality is important, however, do not mistake his personality with his character. His personality is the way he presents himself to the world, the way he expresses himself on the outside. His character is what he is on the inside, his substance.

In order to know how to recognize a good man, you have to get to know him and had serious discussions with him, and this comes with time.

If you find a man who is committed to growing and improving himself as a person, that he wants to learn everything he can about being a better person, this is a good character trait.

If he is open emotionally and open with his feelings and he expresses those feelings to you. You should feel that the door to his heart is open.

Is he mature and responsible? This means that he has grown up and does not act like a child, and expecting you to take care of him. Being responsible means he does what he says he is going to do. He keeps his promises and shows up on time.

Does he have a positive attitude toward life? Does he see good in the world in you and himself? He should make you feel good when you are with him. Steer clear of the man who is a negative person who is always complaining. This type of man reminds me of Chicken Little, when he says “the sky is falling, the sky is falling.” This type of person will drain all your energy and bring you down.

Does he have a high self-esteem? Does he feel good about who he is and how he lives his life, and takes care of himself? A man can only love you if he loves himself. He does not allow other people to mistreat him or you.

Does he have integrity? Can you count on him to be truthful with you at all times? Is he honest with himself and you? Honesty and integrity are essential for a healthy relationship. You want to respect the way he treats other people.

In order for you to know how to recognize a good man, you need to possess these same qualities. It is important to love a man not only for exterior appearance but his inner being as well.

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