Relationship Success-Allowing It To Grow

When you postpone intimacy it lets you form a strong and lasting emotional bond, and it gives that love a chance to grown. Here are some keys to letting your love grow.

Let you love grow by taking care of yourself and your business. Don’t stop working out, eating right, spending time with your friends or anything else that you enjoy doing. Dropping everything in your life when you start seeing someone new is a bad sign.

If you or he has children, let your love grow by timing when you will meet each other’s children. Meet each other’s children after emotional intimacy has grown, but before sexual intimacy takes place.

Accept him the way he is. The more you let love grow, the less you will notice those things you may not like too much that stand out in the beginning, because you will start seeing and loving his inner light instead of outer details. Give the guy a chance to grow on you.

Show him your appreciation. Tell him thank you when he does nice things for you. tell him how nice he looks. Everyone wants to be appreciated and his love for you will grow because he sees that you appreciate and welcome it. He’ll know that your heart is open.

Show him signs of your love. When you end a phone conversation, tell him you love him. When you make a point of telling him that you love him, you show him you love him. Send an occasional text message or email him. Pay attention when he mentions something he’d like to have and on the appropriate occasion buy it for him. Let him know without a doubt that you love him.

Let love grow by developing trust. Trust supports your love and keeps it alive, be certain you can trust him to be faithful to you. He must be truthful with you, and he must keep his word, you must be able to trust him with your heart. He must be honest and have integrity.

Allow him to slowly seduce you and that is your way of seducing him. He leads and you follow, and you must allow him to lead. Allow real love to grow and guide you in knowing when it’s time for sexual intimacy.

You need to be able to trust that the man you are with will treat you gently and with love, as you open up your heart and soul, this kind of trust takes time to develop. It is well worth the wait.